Nancy Duggin
As the dawn of a new school year stretches before you, pause — breathe deeply, gather your children close, and look back before getting caught up in shopping for school supplies, new clothes, learning new schedules, and meeting new teachers.
Slow down long enough to savor a few moments reflecting on the previous school year. Sit with your children and together recall the treasured moments of the previous grade.
Focus on the memories now woven into their hearts: the laughter shared with newfound friends, the spark of discovery when a lesson took root, the patient encouragement of teachers who helped them grow in confidence and competence.
As the school year unfolds, pray for every adult within the school — those who lead, guide, inspire, and care for students.
Ask for wisdom, patience, and an abundance of grace to fill their days. Engage your children in praying for classmates, for new friendships that will nurture kindness, empathy, respect, and a shared love for learning. Pray that every student feels at home and knows they are of great worth and value. May they desire to do their personal best day-to-day. As a family, take time to pray over the campus as you walk around the buildings, across playgrounds and sports fields.
If you homeschool, let your prayers encircle your home and wherever your child learns, whether in co-ops or on field trips. Pray for the students your child will meet in the coming year, that together they will learn from one another and build bonds of encouragement and respect.
As the new school year begins, you may notice your child’s worries bubbling to the surface — perhaps a third grader anxiously wonders if his teacher will be kind, or a 10th grader quietly questions whether she’ll keep up with the growing demands of homework and friendships. In these moments, listen closely, and imagine the world through your child’s eyes. Assure them it’s natural to feel nervous when facing something new. Let your words wrap around them like a comforting hug: “It’s OK to feel this way. I’m here with you and so is Jesus.”
Let your child know again that you are their greatest cheerleader. Reassure them that no matter what happens — on the playground, in the classroom, or after the final bell that there is nothing that they can’t share with you. And above all, remind them that Jesus is always by their side, ready to listen, to give strength, and to meet every need when they call upon Him.
Begin each day with prayer for your children — before they step onto the bus, walk through the school doors, or even open their books at the kitchen table. Bless their steps, their words, and the thoughts that fill their minds, carrying them through the day.
When the school day has ended and you greet your children, whether at the front door or from the front seat, do so with a warm smile and a word that affirms their presence. Small gestures of welcome assure them that home is a haven where love and acceptance always await.
Consider, too, the questions you ask in those afternoon moments. Instead of “How was school?” — a question so easily dismissed — try inviting your child into the conversation with: “What made you smile today?” “Did you learn something that surprised you?” “Were there moments when you felt brave, or when you helped someone else?” These questions open the door to deeper connection, allowing your child to reflect, share, and feel truly heard.
Let’s embrace the new school year with hearts full of gratitude and eyes wide open to the countless ways God will work in and through your children. B&R
